đĒ today Iâm at my breaking point. I need to leave my spouse. Iâve dealt with mental and physical abuse from him. He is a narcissist on top of it all. I donât have family to help. All the programs are shelters. He drained the bank account. So I have no money to leave. I have applied for many jobs. With no success. We owned our own business so for 25 years Iâve worked for free.